Quotes to Survive a Bad Day!

Lets face it, some days are just harder than others. On those days, I like to find a little extra inspiration through quotes. Here are some of my favorites that helped me get through the roughest of days.

There is no need to be perfect to inspire others. Let people get inspired by how you deal with your imperfections.-Robert Tew

Curiosity is the engine of achievement.-Ken Robinson

 

Laughter is timeless. Imagination has no age. And dreams are forever. -Walt Disney

 

Are you a princess? I said and she said I’m much more than a princess, but you don’t have a name for it yet here on earth.-Brian Andreas

Even miracles take a little time.-Cinderella

Nothing is an obstacle unless you say it is.– Wallace Amos

Whatever you are, be a good one. – Abraham Lincoln

Don’t follow the path. Go where there is no path and begin the trail. When you start a new trail equipped with courage, strength and conviction, the only thing that can stop you is you!-Ruby Bridges

 

High expectations are the key to everything. – Sam Walton

Family is the perfect blend of love and chaos.-Unknown

Her smile makes me smile. Her laugh is infectious. Her heart is pure and true. Above all I love that she is my daughter. -Unknown

The true sign of intelligence is not knowledge but imagination.-Albert Einstein

Think before you speak. Read before you think.-Fran Lebowitz

and as always, ¨Just keep swimming!¨

Corn Dip Favorite

I really did not want to get back in the kitchen the day after Christmas, so I decided leftovers and corn dip would be perfect to snack on. It is so versatile and can be used with chips, veggies, crackers, or whatever you have lying in the pantry. My family request it for just about every gathering, which I love because it is so quick and easy. 

Ingredients:

  • 2 cups (8 ounces) shredded cheddar cheese
  • 4 cans (11 ounces) whole kernel corn, drained well
  • 6 green onions chopped ( more or less to taste)
  • 2 cans (4 ounces) chopped mild green chilies
  • 1 cup mayonnaise
  • 1 cup sour cream
  • Salt & pepper to taste
  • 1 jalapeno pepper, seeded and chopped *optional or substitute one of the mild green chilies for hot.
  • Tortilla or corn chips

DIRECTIONS

In a large bowl, combine all ingredients.  Cover and refrigerate overnight. Garnish with a sprinkle of green onions on top.

Quick & Easy Cheese Ball

Do you need an easy dip to take to a Christmas party? I will be completely honest when I say I do not like to cook nor do I usually have time to make much of anything. That is why when I find something quick, easy, and good it becomes a regular in our household. This cheese ball recipe is one of my favorites for any occasion.

Ingredients:

  • 2-8 oz boxes of cream cheese
  • A cup of shredded cheddar or Colby cheese
  • 1 packet of ranch dressing seasoning mix (1 oz)
  • Crumbled bacon fresh or packaged.
  • Optional- fresh chopped Jalapeno peppers. (2-3 peppers)

 

In a mixing bowl combine the cream cheese, cheddar cheese, and ranch packet. Blend with hand mixer. My husband likes an extra kick, so I add in the Jalapenos here. Tear off a large sheet of plastic wrap and dump mixture into the center. Shape into a ball and refrigerate until almost solid. (about 30 minutes) Take out and roll ball in crumbled bacon. Serve with your choice of crackers or chips or store in the fridge until party time.

Cheap Whitening Toothpaste

A few years ago I wanted to whiten my teeth without buying one of the expensive whitening kits. I researched and googled ideas and recipes. I ended up combining and morphing ideas together.

My homemade whitening toothpaste recipe:

Ingredients:

-Mix the baking soda and hydrogen peroxide in a tub until it makes a paste. Then add it a small squeeze of your toothpaste and mix well.

 

I use it 2-3 times a week. Disclaimer: My gums were sensitive the first few weeks of using it, but it got better quickly. My dentist appointments have been a breeze since I added this to my routine too. My cleanings are only about 15 minutes and cavity free. Saves money and super easy! 

 

Top 15 Favorite Christmas Books

Looking for ideas to do with your children over Holiday break? Read a book together. Read alouds can lead to so many wonderful discussions with your children. Here are my top 15 favorite Christmas books.

-Silver Packages: An Appalachian Christmas Story by Cynthia Rylant -¨Every year at Christmas a rich man rides a train through Appalachia and throws gifts to the poor children who are waiting, in order to repay a debt he owes the people who live there.¨

–How the Grinch Stole Christmas by Dr Seuss -“Every Who down in Who-ville liked Christmas a lot . . . but the Grinch, who lived just north of Who-ville, did NOT!” Not since “’Twas the night before Christmas” has the beginning of a Christmas tale been so instantly recognizable. This heartwarming story about the effects of the Christmas spirit will grow even the coldest and smallest of hearts. Like mistletoe, candy canes, and caroling, the Grinch is a mainstay of the holidays, and his story is the perfect gift for young and old.¨

-Yes, Virginia. There is a Santa Claus by Chris Plehal – ¨In 1897, eight-year-old Virginia O’Hanlon wrote the New York Sun to ask a simple question: Is there a Santa Claus? The editor’s response was a stirring defense of hope, generosity, and the spirit of childhood. His essay has been reprinted countless times since, and the phrase “Yes, Virginia, there is a Santa Claus” has become part of American Christmas lore.

Based on these actual events, Yes, Virginia is the story of a little girl who taught a city to believe.¨

-Christmas Tapestry by Patricia Polacco -¨When a leak ruins the sacristy wall in his father’s church, Jonathan Jefferson Weeks thinks Christmas Eve service will be ruined. Luckily he and his father find a beautiful tapestry, perfect for covering the damaged wall and giving the church a festive look! But then, an old Jewish woman recognizes the beautiful cloth. Her discovery leads to a real miracle on Christmas Eve.¨

–Welcome Comfort by Patricia Polacco-¨It’s not easy being Welcome Comfort-a foster child always moving from home to home and getting picked on by the kids at school. Even Christmas, the most wondrous time of the year, isn’t so wondrous for Welcome, since he has no family, no presents, and no Santa Claus. But when Welcome meets Mr. Hamp, the school custodian, he finally finds a friend. And when Christmas comes around, Welcome is taken on an extraordinary adventure that changes his life forever.¨

–How Santa Got His Job by Stephen Krensky- ¨Have you ever wondered what Santa did before he was Santa?
When Santa was young and needed a job, no one was looking for a man in a red suit to deliver gifts on Christmas. So Santa tried just about everything — from a chimney sweep to a postman to a circus performer. But none of these worked out. It wasn’t until he met a group of elves who helped him use all his special talents, that Santa was able to find his dream job.¨

–How Santa Lost His Job by Stephen Krensky- ¨Santa has the best job he can think of — brining presents each Christmas to children all around the world. Every year he prepares for his trip: He trims his beard, takes a bath, gets dressed, and packs up his sleigh fort he long night ahead. But there are always a few unexpected delays that make things a little hectic. Muckle, one of the elves who helps Santa, thinks he can come up with a more efficient way of delivering the toys — a method that won’t involve Santa at all.¨

–Cobweb Christmas The Tradition of Tinsel by Shirley Climo- ¨All her life, Tante had heard tales about marvelous happenings on Christmas Eve. Animals might speak aloud. Bees might hum carols, or cocks crow at midnight. Tante wished she could witness a bit of Christmas magic, too.

Everybody loves Christmas at Tante’s. The old lady decorates a wonderful tree and makes certain to have something for all who come to visit, be it the nearby village children or the shy animals of the pine forest. The only creatures Tante overlooks are the spiders she has swept out of her cottage while cleaning. But the curious spiders want to come inside and see Tante’s tree, too. When a midnight visitor lets them into the old lady’s home, they unknowingly spin Tante the very gift she has longed for–a gift that has inspired the draping of tinsel on Christmas trees ever since.

This Old World tale about the warmth and wonder of Christmas will leave children enchanted with the magical possibilities of the season.¨

-An Orange for Frankie by Patricia Polacco-¨The Stowell family is abuzz with holiday excitement, and Frankie, the youngest boy, is the most excited of all. But there’s a cloud over the joyous season: Tomorrow is Christmas Eve, and Pa hasn’t returned yet from his trip to Lansing. He promised to bring back the oranges for the mantelpiece. Every year there are nine of them nestled among the evergreens, one for each of the children. But this year, heavy snows might mean no oranges . . . and, worse, no Pa!¨

–The Year of the Perfect Christmas Tree: An Appalachian Story by Gloria Houston- ¨This unforgettable tale, illustrated by Caldecott Medalist Barbara Cooney, has become a seasonal classic-a touching and joyful story about courage and the power of family.¨

-The Best Christmas Pageant Ever by Barbara Robinson- ¨Laughs abound in this bestselling Christmas classic by Barbara Robinson! The Best Christmas Pageant Ever follows the outrageous shenanigans of the Herdman siblings, or “the worst kids in the history of the world.” The siblings take over the annual Christmas pageant in a hilarious yet heartwarming tale involving the Three Wise Men, a ham, scared shepherds, and six rowdy kids.

Ralph, Imogene, Leroy, Claude, Ollie, and Gladys Herdman are an awful bunch. They set fire to Fred Shoemaker’s toolshed, blackmailed Wanda Pierce to get her charm bracelet, and smacked Alice Wendelken across the head. And that’s just the start! When the Herdmans show up at church for the free snacks and suddenly take over the Christmas pageant, the other kids are shocked. It’s obvious that they’re up to no good. But Christmas magic is all around and the Herdmans, who have never heard the Christmas story before, start to reimagine it in their own way.

This year’s pageant is definitely like no other, but maybe that’s exactly what makes it so special.¨

-The Carpenter’s Gift: A Christmas Tale about the Rockefeller Center Tree by David Rubel- ¨This “new classic” Christmas story brings together two great traditions: the Rockefeller Center Christmas tree and the neighbor-helping-neighbor program of Habitat for Humanity. Opening in Depression-era New York City, The Carpenter’s Gift tells the story of eight-year-old Henry and his father selling Christmas trees. They give a Christmas tree to construction workers building Rockefeller Center and celebrate together. Through the kindness of the construction workers and neighbors, Henry gets his wish for a nice, warm home to replace his family’s drafty shack. He plants a pinecone from that first Rockefeller Center Tree. As an old man, Henry repays the gift by donating the enormous tree that has grown from that pinecone to become a Rockefeller Center Christmas tree. After bringing joy to thousands as the Rockefeller Center tree, its wood will be used to build a home for another family in need.¨

–Olive, the Other Reindeer by Vivian Walsh- ¨Olive is merrily preparing for Christmas when suddenly she realizes “Olive… the other Reindeer… I thought I was a dog. Hmmm, I must be a Reindeer!” So she quickly hops aboard the polar express and heads to the North Pole. And while Santa and the other reindeer are a bit surprised that a dog wants to join the their team, in the end Olive and her unusual reindeer skills are just what Santa and his veteran reindeer team need. Colorful graphic illustrations accompany this zany dog story from the well-known author and artist team, Vivian and J.otto Seibold. Adorable Olive and her hilarious adventures are sure to make anyone’s Christmas merry.¨

–The Legend of the Poinsettia by Tomie dePaola- ¨In Mexico, the poinsettia is called flor de la Nochebuenao flower of the Holy Night. At Christmastime, the flower blooms and flourishes, the quite exquisite red stars lighting up the countryside.

This Mexican legend tells how the poinsettia came to be, through a little girl’s unselfish gift to the Christ Child. Beloved Newbery honor-winning author and Caldecott honor-winning illustrator Tomie dePaola has embraced the legend using his own special feeling for Christmas. His glorious paintings capture not only the brilliant colors of Mexico and its art, but also the excitement of the children preparing for Christmas and the hope of Lucida, who comes to see what makes a gift truly beautiful.¨

–How Murray Saved Christmas by Mike Reiss- ¨When Santa’s knocked out cold by a Jack-in-the-Boxer’s walloping punch, deli owner Murray Kleiner reluctantly agrees to take his place. The suit doesn’t fit, Murray smells a bit like pickles, and there’s no way he can remember the names of all those reindeer. But with the help of a pushy elf and an eager-to-believe young boy, Murray finds out that even though he’s not big enough to fill Santa’s suit, he’s got more than enough heart to get the job done.¨

 

Our Journey with ADD/ADHD.

As parents we are constantly worried and second guessing ourselves over just about every decision we have to make. I knew early on that my oldest son was not your textbook child. I could never anticipate how he would react to any situation. It took me much longer than I like to admit to take the next step. The thought of labeling him was heartbreaking to me.

Most toddlers can easily be redirected and distracted. That was not Owen. He would have the biggest meltdowns over the smallest things. I vividly remember one of his worse tantrums was because I turned the car off when we came home and the song on the radio was not over. I now know that it was not him purposely being defiant, but a sign of his OCD-Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder.

His impulsiveness and emotional outbursts were the hardest to deal with. He knew right from wrong, and yet he would immediately react to a situation. Then, he would get so upset with himself after he regained control and calmed down. We would talk and reflect on how to handle the situation next time along with consequences. Yet, the end result still remained the same. He was frustrated with himself as much as we were with how to help him. Everything we tried did not make a difference.

I had numerous conferences with his 1st grade teacher. He would get so emotional in class, not finishing work, not staying in his seat, could not stop one activity to move to the next, etc. All I could say was I don’t know what to do anymore. I was completely opposed to medication. I just knew he would be a zombie and everyone would see it as me taking the easy way out instead of disciplining my child.

Then it happened, I watched him get so overwhelmed and upset that he repeatedly started punching himself in the face. In that moment, I realized that I needed help. We could not continue down the path we were on.

The next day I called his pediatrician. After questionnaires, surveys, and conferencing with him, she determined that he is ADHD/ADD( attention deficit/hyperactivity disorder) and OCD. Together we set up an intervention plan for him. Adequate sleep, better nutritional habits, more time outside, coping strategies, and medication were all topics of discussion. He is now on the lowest dose of medication and the goal is to teach him self coping strategies wean him off medication by the time he enters middle school.

¨Treatment includes, first of all, education.  MAKE SURE the child and parent understand this is not a “deficit disorder,” but rather a condition that can be associated with tremendous success.  I have millionaires and billionaires in my practice.  There are numerous Academy Award winners who have ADD, Pulitzer Prize winners, CEO’s, Nobel Prize winners, Generals, Admirals, world class chefs, and leaders in every field who have ADD.  The real disabilities are shame, fear, and believing you are a loser.¨ -Ned Hallowell.

Ned Hallowell is a child and adult psychiatrist and the founder of the Hallowell Center for Cognitive and Emotional Health in Sudbury, Mass., and New York City, and was a member of the faculty of the Harvard Medical School. He is the author of a number of books, including, with co-author John Ratey, “Driven to Distraction,” “Answers to Distraction,”and “Delivered from Distraction.” He also co-authored, with Peter S. Jensen, “Superparenting for ADD.”

I wanted to share our journey to encourage any parent that may be struggling with this to please call your pediatrician. Answers are so much better than not knowing. I went to a conference with Owen’s second grade teachers Thursday and it was such a drastic difference from the year before.  We had nothing to talk about because he’s overall doing well, so I cried happy tears all the way home.

¨To be clear: undiagnosed and untreated, ADD can ruin a life.  It can ruin school, ruin childhood, ruin a career, ruin a marriage, ruin everything.  The prisons, the halls of the addicted and unemployed, the multiply divorced, the depressed, and the people who attempt and complete suicide, all are over-represented by ADD.

But, so are the people who change the world for the better: the entrepreneurs, the entertainers, the innovators, the visionaries, and the creatively gifted in all fields.¨ Ned Hallowell

Elf on the Shelf, Homework Buddy

After a weekend of behavior issues with my oldest and seeing his progress report, I changed my mind. The Elf on the Shelf would indeed make an appearance this year. Since homework has become such a chore, I’m putting that Elf the work.

Addition with regrouping has become an issue lately, so Elf left extra problems. Other concepts that could be used is subtraction, perimeter, area, multiplication.

 

Elf couldn’t leave reading out. ¨I need a synonym for     .¨ antonyms or rhyming words could be used.

Leave a riddle for your child to read.

 

Leave a homograph or homophone and have your child name the other.  

 

Sight words or if the teacher sends home a weekly newsletter, use the concepts they are working on that week.

 

For younger children, the Elf can leave a pattern with candy and have your child make another pattern. My 7 year old then counted and divided the candies evenly.

After he divided it equally, we then looked at them as an array. (2×8=16)

Leave a number and ask if it‘s even or odd.

Leave paint for your child to mix and make new colors.

 

Survival Plan=Disney Quotes and Coffee

I hit snooze one too many times. My main idea and supporting details lesson didn’t go exactly how I had envisioned. Actually it was quite the disaster. I survived my work day only to come home to war. My children couldn’t get along for five seconds. Seriously, all I wanted was a few glorious moments of silence. After patiently counting down to bedtime,  I was basking in my relief that they were finally tucked in bed, only to be interrupted by the sound of my daughter throwing up all over her bed. Thankfully my children’s obsession with Disney movies saved the day. I thought I would share a few of the quotes the popped in my head throughout the day.

[to the clock tower chiming] Oh, that clock! Old killjoy. I hear you. “Come on, get up,” you say, “Time to start another day.” Even he orders me around. Well, there’s one thing. They can’t order me to stop dreaming.- Cinderella, Cinderella

[singing] I’m late / I’m late / For a very important date. / No time to say “Hello, Goodbye”. / I’m late, I’m late, I’m late.-White Rabbit, Alice in Wonderland

Muscle up, buttercup! We’re here. – Maui, Moana

 

We were like whoah, and then we were like whoah, and then we were like whoah.-Crush, Finding Nemo

Pacha: Uh-oh. Kuzco: Don’t tell me. We’re about to go over a huge waterfall. Pacha: Yep. Kuzco: Sharp rocks at the bottom? Pacha: Most likely. Kuzco: Bring it on. –The Emperor’s New Groove

You played dodgeball? I loved dodgeball! Of course, I was the ball.- Mike Wazowski, Monsters INC

*mockingly* It’s my grandma’s. I ate my grandma!!!-Tamatoa, Moana

 Motto? Nothing, what’s a motto with you?”-Timon, The Lion King

My bark is worse than my bite.- Grandmother Willow, Pocahontas

Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming, swimming, swimming.- Dory, Finding Nemo

I’m sorry I bit you… and pulled your hair… and punched you in the face… -Lilo, Lilo and Stitch

Y’all ain’t got the sense you was born with!- Mama Odie, The Princess and the Frog.

Find a happy place! Find a happy place!- Peach the Starfish, Finding Nemo

Oh, man. Hey, no hurling on the shell, dude, ok? Just waxed it. -Crush, Finding Nemo

My brain hates my eyes for seeing that.-Go Go Tomago, Big Hero 6

¨Ohana” means “family.” “Family” means “no one gets left behind.-Lilo, Lilo and Stitch

Christmas Around the World Project

For the past few years I’ve done the Christmas Around the World project where I had students draw a country, research it,  and write a paper. Last year I decided to try something different.

I made a Facebook post asking for anyone living in a different country to send a letter to my students explaining holiday traditions in their country. I’m still overwhelmed with the response that we got. We received videos, letters, goodie boxes, Christmas cards, and emails from South Africa, Australia, New Zealand, Scotland, Korea, Japan, Switzerland, Germany, Lithuania, Switzerland, and England. This was definitely one of those shining moments that make you realize there are still wonderful people all around!

We had biscuits and Christmas Crackers to open from London. Oh how I wish I would have caught the reactions on video when the firecrackers (Christmas crackers) started exploding. We had cookies from Australia, and we even got to watch a video of a Christmas parade in Switzerland. I have never seen students so excited over an assignment. I lost count how many times a day I heard, ¨Do we have any mail? Can I go check your box?¨ 

I’m introducing my new third grade class to this project tomorrow. I can’t wait to see where we’ll go this year.

Monday Motivation

The Monday back to school after a week off, plus throw in the excitement of Christmas. I know I needed a little extra inspiration to get me through today and the upcoming weeks.

 

You can learn many things from children. How much patience you have, for instance.-Franklin P. Jones

 

“There is no need to be perfect to inspire others… Let people get inspired by how you deal with your imperfections.”-Robert Tew

 

“The job of an educator is to teach students to see the vitality in themselves.” -Joseph Campbell

 

“There are two kinds of teachers: the kind that fills you with so much quail shot that you can’t move, and the kind that just gives you a little prod behind and you jump to the skies.” -Robert Frost

 

“The greatest sign of success for a teacher … is to be able to say, ‘The children are now working as if I did not exist.’”- Maria Montessori

 

“[Kids] don’t remember what you try to teach them. They remember what you are.” -Jim Henson

 

“Those who know, do. Those that understand, teach.” – Aristotle

 

“The dream begins, most of the time, with a teacher who believes in you, who tugs and pushes and leads you on to the next plateau, sometimes poking you with a sharp stick called truth.” -Dan Rather

 

Teachers affect eternity; no one can tell where their influence stops.-Henry Brooks Adams

“Let us remember: one book, one pen, one child and one teacher can change the world.” — Malala Yousafzai

 

What you’re doing now, or have done in the past, need not determine what you can do next and in the future.-Ken Robinson

 

¨Never help a child with a task at which he feels he can succeed.¨-Maria Montessori

 

It’s fine to celebrate success but it is more important to heed the lessons of failure. -Bill Gates

 

For most of us the problem isn’t that we aim too high and fail – it’s just the opposite – we aim too low and succeed.” -Ken Robinson

 

“Curiosity is the engine of achievement.” -Ken Robinson